My recent Google search history is filled with profound queries like “why so tired pregnancy,” “third trimester exhausted,” and “pregnancy fatigue normal?” Even basic life maintenance tasks feel hard these days.
I felt validated, then, when I had dinner with a French friend who was surprised to learn I was still working and planned to keep doing so until roughly a week before my due date. “At home, you’d already be off!” he told me.
Once I got over my jealousy of those French women easing into motherhood – no wonder French moms are so chill! – I got curious. Had I discovered yet another way the U.S. lets parents, and especially birthing parents, down?
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